Bringing Up Puppy
Having her repeatedly take a lower, submissive position
at your command reinforces your dominant position. If you're still having
a hard time, ask your veterinarian about special exercises designed
to establish your dominance without aggression.The social life Socializing
is one of the most important things you can do to train your young dog.
Puppies, like babies, are like sponges--ready to absorb all kinds of
information about their world. In the first months of their lives, they
learn the right places to sleep to catch the late afternoon sun and
that the sound of the can opener means dinner time. In this same period,
it's your job as a pet owner to teach them to bond with people and with
other dogs and to be comfortable in unfamiliar situations. This is one
of the most important things you can do for your fuzzy family member.
The less afraid your puppy is of strange people and animals, the less
likely she is to act defensively and attack another dog or even a child.The
socialization of puppies begins between three and four weeks of age,
before most people bring their new pets home. This means that some of
the work is out of your control. If your puppy has been raised by a
careless owner or breeder, you may have an uphill battle to fight when
you get her home. The good news is, she will continue the socialization
process until she is about 12 weeks old, so you have plenty of time
to give her good experiences. First of all, make sure she bonds with
you and your family.
Pet her, groom her, play with her, talk to her, and just generally
give her lots of love. Show her that she can depend on you for affection,
food, and gentle leadership.Once your pup feels safe with you and she's
had all her vaccinations, you can introduce her to the big, wide world.
Take her to lots of new and exciting places--the park, a friend's house,
or dog-friendly stores.
Make sure she has plenty of chances to meet kind people and play with
well-socialized dogs. Try to make trips to the veterinarian fun, with
plenty of petting from you and the friendly veterinarian and technicians.
Introduce her to children, too, in a well-supervised environment. Show
the kids how to speak calmly to her and pet her gently. If you notice
your puppy acting nervous in a new situation or starting to bristle
at a strange dog, try not to scold her.
Raising your voice will only make her more tense. Trying to comfort
her will backfire too. If she gets a lot of petting, cooing, and attention
every time she's scared or aggressive, she'll learn that reacting this
way is a good thing. Instead, distract her as best you can. Toss a ball
or a chew toy to her, or start playing her favorite game. When she gets
absorbed in the game and starts ignoring the people or the dog that
scared her, give her lots of praise.
Soon she'll associate the scary situation with fun and playtime, and
she'll become a canine socialite.Think positively When most dog owners
think about training their dog, they think in negatives. They want their
puppy not to chew the furniture, not to piddle on the carpet, and not
to jump up on guests.
This can get a little confusing from the puppy's point of view, however.
Imagine you were a puppy home alone, and you spent most of your day
chewing on some loafers and spreading garbage around the kitchen. Then
you nap for an hour and meet your family at the door when they come
home. Suddenly they greet you with lots of yelling and shouts of "No!"
What did you do wrong? Was it the chewing or meeting the family at the
door? What were you supposed to do instead?The key to keeping your puppy
from doing what you don't want her to do is giving her a positive alternative--teaching
her what you do want her to do. For example, if you see your puppy dancing
anxiously around the living room like she needs to go out, get her outside
in a flash.
Stay near her the whole time she's out, and reward her with praise
and a treat as soon as she relieves herself. This teaches her that going
outside is a good thing. If you catch your puppy chewing on something
you don't want her to chew on, distract her with one of her "good"
chew toys. Whenever you catch her chewing on one of her toys, reward
her. That's the key to effective training--try to catch your puppy doing
something good, like sitting still instead of jumping up or sleeping
on the floor instead of the bed. Make a point of noticing these behaviors
and rewarding them with attention, praise, or treats. Training is a
gradual process, and it can be a difficult road to walk alone.
It's important that your entire family commits to a training plan,
that you all agree to respond the same way when your dog misbehaves
as well as when she behaves perfectly. Remember, when you train, you
need to be persistent, and above all, patient. Your puppy's going to
make a lot of mistakes, and she may just destroy a few of your belongings,
but she's mostly just eager to please you. She needs your love, attention,
and guidance to be the good dog you know she can be.